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therefore do not represent modern Chinese womanhood. On the whole, these modern

influences must be taken as liberalizing influences working for the good of Chinese

womanhood and therefore of the race. The first important effect is on the girl's

physique. The exposure of female thighs in athletic contests, so much regretted by the

older generation, must in the end work for the good of the nation. With the

development of physique comes a more naturally graceful movement than the

boudoir-cultivated movements of the bound feet.

Chapter Six

SOCIAL AND POLITICAL LIFE

I. ABSENCE OF THE SOCIAL MIND

THE Chinese are a nation of individualists. They are familyminded, not

social -minded, and the family mind is only a form of magnified selfishness. It is

curious that the word "society'5 does not exist as an idea in Chinese thought. In the

Confucian social and political philosophy we see a direct transition from the family,

chia, to the state, kuo, as successive stages of human organization, as in such sayings

as "When the family is orderly, then the state is peaceful,55 or "Put the family in order

and rule the state in peace.55 The nearest equivalent to the notion of society is, then, a

compound of the two words, kuochia, or "state- family,55 in accordance with the rule

for forming Chinese abstract terms.

"Public spirit55 is a new term, so is "civic consciousness,55 and so is "social

service.55 There are no such commodities in China. To be sure, there are "social

affairs,55 such as weddings, funerals, and birthday celebrations and Buddhistic

processions and annual festivals. But the things which make up English and American

social life, viz., sport, politics and religion, are conspicuously absent. There is no

church and no church community. The Chinese religiously abstain from talking

politics; they do not cast votes, and they have no club-house debates on politics. They

do not indulge in sport, which binds human beings together, and which is the essence

of the English and American social life. They play games, to be sure, but these games

are characteristic of Chinese individualism. Chinese games do not divide the players

into two parties, as in cricket with one team playing against the other. Team work ii

unknown. In Chinese card games, each man plays for himself The Chinese like poker,

and do not like bridge. They have always played mahjong, which is nearer to poker than to bridge. In this philosophy of mahjong may be seen the essence of Chinese

individualism.

An illustration of Chinese individualism may be seen in the organization of a Chinese

newspaper. The Chinese run their papers as they play their mahjong. I have seen

Chinese daily papers so edited as to require an editor- in-chief* whose only business is

to write editorials. The man in charge of domestic news has his page, the man in

charge of international cables has his, and the man in charge of city news again has

his own ground. These four men handle their respective departments like the four

hands at a mahjong table, each trying to guess what the others have got. Each tries to

make up his set and throws out the unwanted bamboo to the next man. If there is too

much domestic news, it can conveniently flow over (without warning, as far as the

reader is concerned) to the page for city news, and if this again has too much copy, it

can conveniently flow over to the murders and conflagrations. There is no necessity

for front-page make-up, no selection, no coordination, no subordination. Each editor

can retire at his own good time. The scheme is simplicity itself. Moreover, both the

editors and the readers are born individualists. It is the editor's business to publish the

news, and the reader's business to look for it. They do not interfere with one another.

This is the journalistic technique of some of the oldest, largest and most popular daily

papers in China to this day.

If you ask why there is no co-ordination, the answer is, there's no social mind. For if

the editor- in-chief tries to initiate reforms and fire the city editor for obstruction, he

will run up against the family system. What does he mean by interfering with other

people's business? Does he mean to throw the city editor out and break his rice-bowl,

starving all the people dependent upon him? And if the city editor's wife is the

proprietor's niece, can he throw him out? If the editorin-chief has any Chinese social

consciousness, he will not attempt such a thing, and if he is a raw American-returned

graduate of the Missouri School of Journalism, he will soon have to get out. Another

man who knows Chinese social ways will get in, the old scheme will go on working,

the readers will go on hunting for their news and the paper will go on increasing its

circulation and making money.

Some such psychology is hidden behind all Chinese social intercourse, and it would

be easy to multiply examples showing a lack of the social mind truly bewildering to

the twentiethcentury Western man. I say "twentieth-century man" because he has

received the benefits of nineteenth-century humanitarianism, with a broadened social

outlook. As a typically bewildering example, which is yet truly representative of

Chinese thought regarding social work, I quote verbally from the Analects Fortnightly

(a magazine devoted to unconscious Chinese humour) reporting the speech of a native

war-lord regarding the movement for mass education. The young people caught with

the modern American enthusiasm for social service organized a movement for

"annihilating literary blindness.9' So saith the General, therefore, in a speech:

"Students ought to work at their books and not meddle with public affairs. The people do their own business and eat their own rice, and you want to annihilate the people!"

The persuasive argument is this: the illiterate are not interfering with you, why must

you interfere with them? Those words, so short, so forceful, are yet so true because

they come direct and undisguised from the speaker's heart. To a Chinese, social work

always looks like "meddling with other people's business." A man enthusiastic for

social reform or, in fact, for any kind of public work always looks a little bit

ridiculous. We discount his sincerity. We cannot understand him. What does he mean

by going out of his way to do all this work? Is he courting publicity? Why is he not

loyal to his family and why does he not get official promotion and help his family first?

We decide he is young, or else he is a deviation from the normal human type.

There were always such deviations from type, the haohsieh or "chivalrous men," but

they were invariably of the bandit or vagabond class, unmarried, bachelors with good

vagabond souls, willing to jump into the water to save an unknown drowning child.

(Married men in China do not do that.) Or else they were married men who died

penniless and made their wives and children suffer. We admire them, we love them,

but we do not like to have them in the family. When we see a boy who has too much

public spirit getting himself into all sorts of scrapes, we confidently predict that boy

will be the death of his parents. If we can break him early enough, well and good; if

not, he will go to jail and ruin the family fortune besides. But it isn' t always as bad as

that. If we cannot break him, he will probably run away from home and join the

publicspirited brigands. That is why they are "deviations."

How is such a state of things possible? The Chinese are not such heathens,

deep-drowned in their sins, as the Christian missionaries would imagine, although

here the word "heathen," with all the force of Christian contempt and condemnation,

seems eminently applicable. It would be better if the missionaries tried to understand

them and attack the evil from its source, for back of it is a social philosophy different

from theirs. The difference is a difference of point of view. The best modern educated

Chinese still cannot understand why Western women should organize a "Society for

the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals." Why bother about the dogs, and why do they

not stay at home and nurse their babies? We decide that these women have no children

and therefore have nothing better to do, which is probably often true. The conflict is

between the family mind and the social mind. If one scratches deep eno ugh, one

always finds the family mind at work.

For the family system is the root of Chinese society, from which all Chinese social

characteristics derive. The family system and the village system, which is the family

raised to a higher exponent, account for all there is to explain in the Chinese social

life. Face, favour, privilege, gratitude, courtesy, official corruption, public institutions,

the school, the guild, philanthropy, hospitality, justice, and finally the whole

government of China 梐 ll spring from the family and village system, all borrow from

it their peculiar tenor and complexion, and all find in it enlightening explanations for

their peculiar characteristics. For from the family system there arises the family mind, and from the family mind there arise certain laws of social behaviour. It will be

interesting to study these and see how man behaves as a social being in the absence of

a social mind.

II. THE FAMILY SYSTEM

There were formerly no such words as "family system" as a sociological term; we

knew the family only as "the basis of the state," or rather as the basis of human society.

The system colours all our social life. It is personal, as our conception of government

is personal. It teaches our children the first lessons in social obligations between man

and man, the necessity of mutual adjustment, self-control, courtesy, a sense of duty,

which is very well defined, a sense of obligation and gratitude toward parents, and

respect for elders. It very nearly takes the place of religion by giving man a sense of

social survival and family continuity, thus satisfying man's craving for immortality,

and through the ancestral worship it makes the sense of immortality very vivid. It

breeds a sense of family honour, for which it is so easy to find parallels in the West.

It touches us even in very personal ways. It takes the right of contracting marriage

from our hands and gives it to those of our parents; it makes us marry, not wives but

c'daughtersin- law," and it makes our wives give birth, not to children but to

"grandchildren," It multiplies the obligations of the bride a hundredfold. It makes it

rude for a young couple to close the door of their room in the family house in the

daytime, and makes privacy an unknown word in China. Like the radio, it accustoms

us to noisy weddings, noisy funerals, noisy suppers and noisy sleep. And like the

radio, it benumbs our nerves and develops our good temper. The Western man is like a

maiden who has only herself to look after, and who consequently manages to look

neat and tidy, while the Chinese man is like the daughter- in- law of a big family who

has a thousand and one household obligations to attend to. It therefore breeds in us

soberness at an early age. It keeps our young in their places. It overprotects our

child.ren, and it is strange how few children rebel and run away Where the parents are

top self-centred and autocratic, it often deprives the young man of enterprise and

initiative, and I consider this the most disastrous effect of the family system on

Chinese character. A parent's funeral interferes with a scholar's chances at the official

examinations for three years, and is good ground for the resignation of a cabinet

minister.

Family ethics interferes even with our travel and sport, for the theory was developed

in the Hsiaoking, or Classic of Filial Piejty (which every schoolboy used to

memorize), that "the body, the hair and the skin are received from the parents and may

not be injured." Tsengtse, the great disciple of Confucius, said on his deathbed,

"Examine my hands, examine my feet," which had been kept intact to return to his

forefathers. This already borders on a religious feeling. It limits our travels, for

Confucius saida "A man does not travel to distant places when his parents are living, and if he does he must have a definite destination." The best form of travel, i.e., travel

without destination and without hoping to arrive anywhere, is therefore theoretically

impossible. The filial son "does not climb high, and does not tread on dangerous

places." There is therefore not a single filial son in the Alpine Club.

In short, the family system is the negation of individualism itself, and it holds a man

back, as the reins of the jockey hold back the dashing Arabian horse. Sometimes the

jockey is good, and then he helps the horse to win the race, but sometimes he is not so

good. Sometimes it is not a jockey that is holding the horse back but merely a refuse

cart. But then, Chinese society has no use for fine Arabian thoroughbreds, the best

proof of which is that we have not produced them. We murder them, assassinate them,

hound them into the mountains, or send them into the asylum. We want only steady,

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