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鸣谢
Acknowledgements
首先，我深深感谢我的未婚夫豪尔赫（Jorge），他对我坚定不移的信念和不断的鼓励让我即使在自疑时也能继续前进。感谢你在我的整个学术生涯和本书的写作过程中守护我。你从一开始就在那里。
我深深感谢无数科学家和研究人员，他们在神经科学和心理学方面的开创性工作阐明了人类思维的复杂运作。他们对知识有孜孜不倦的追求，不吝与世界分享他们的发现，凡此皆为本书奠定了框架。
我当然需要感谢我的经纪人阿比盖尔．伯格斯特罗姆（Abigail Bergstrom），她是我所能要求的最厉害的家伙。我非常感激能找到妳。在最初与妳通过电话之后，我取消了与其他经纪人的通话，因为我知道我只想与妳合作。感谢我的编辑卡罗琳娜．凯姆（Karolina Kaim），感谢她奋力把我争取到她的照顾中。正如我在书中所说的，我俩是出书上的天作之合。为我们其他更多的相投处干杯。
我要感谢我的指导教授克里斯托弗．金赛博士（Kristofer Kinsey）对本书的支持，特别是同一时期我又在进行我的硕士学位研究。我要感谢以下几位同事兼朋友︰苏拉．温德加森博士（Sula Windgassen）、纳斯．法提赫（Nas Fatih）、马修．沃森（Matthew Watson）、路易莎．尼古拉（Louisa Nicola）、蕾切尔．萨默斯（Rachelle Summers）、利亚丹．冈特（Liadan Gunter）、伊莎贝尔．泰勒（Isabel Taylor）和考特尼．克莱姆勒（Courtney Kremler）。感谢他们为我的作品提供科学洞见、支持和建设性批评。
我还要向我在英国「企鹅」的麦可．约瑟夫（Michael Joseph）团队和我在美的HarperOne团队表示感谢，他们的专业和奉献精神让本书得以顺利出版。我还要感谢我的译本经纪人亚历山德拉．克里夫（Alexandra Cliff），她让本书可以去到世界上更多的地区。
如果我没有提家母希拉．范德默韦（Sheila Van Der Merwe），这就不能算是一篇「鸣谢」了。她孕育了一个传奇人物，因为她本身就是一个传奇人物。感谢妳在我们动荡的童年时期如此爱我。我们透过爱和人之间的连结来疗愈……爱创造了我们。我还要感谢我的婆婆兼临床心理学家金．卡马乔（Kim Camacho），她极大地塑造了我做为科学家的品格，但更重要的是，她让我在最绝望的时候有一个可以依靠的肩膀。生命中能拥有像妳这样一个「第二母亲」是何等有福！另外，谢谢妳生下了妳的儿子。感谢我的公公刘易斯．卡马乔（Luis Camacho）在写作过程中让豪尔赫、狗狗们和我住在他美丽的家中。但愿我们能像家人一样永远生活在一起。抱歉，这种说法听起来很可爱，但实际上我们最终需要自己的空间。
感谢我的手足席尔薇．维诺拉（Silvy Vignola）和迪伦．维诺拉（Dylan Vignola），感谢你们的存在。爱将我们提升到属于我们的位置，让我们注定是家人。我爱你们。感谢以下这几位我最好的朋友︰露西亚．里帕（Lucia Rippa）、加布里埃拉．巴莱塔（Gabriella Baleta）、乌巴卡．奥涅克韦鲁（Ubaka Onyekwelu）、卡罗琳．吉特雷斯（Caroline Guiterrez）、路易莎．拉塞尔－亨利（Louisa Russel-Henry）、香农．博塔（Shannon Botha）和乔．哈格里夫斯（Jo Hargreaves），感谢你们总是带来气氛和欢笑，让我的生活充满欢乐，也总是在我需要你们时接听电话。
最后但并非最不重要的是，我要感谢我在这世上的两个最爱（这么说对不起其他人了）︰我的两只狗狗科比和麦克斯。你们不懂得阅读，但一会儿我就会过来给你们一个大大的搂抱亲吻，让你们知道我有多感激我们找到了彼此。
我衷心感谢每个为本书的诞生出过力的人──无论这力是大是小。如果我没有提到你，可能是因为我忘记了。如果你觉得受到了侮辱，请打电话来告诉我。
